there's much I've learned from living life.
there are a multitude of paths we have to choose and choices we have to make. these construct who we are and the resulting events of our choices help us on the journey of who we are eventually to become.
sexual orientation, religious pursuits, social life, education, philosophical and psychological endeavors are all building blocks that bring us - unique souls of God's design - to life.
sometimes I want to say it is not life that makes us, but our choices. which, in a sense, is true. but the whole structure of this system that is life interwoven with variable choices is too complex to get into. and since it is my personal belief, it may differ from yours - which brings us to the real subject of this entry.
I've gone over that we're all unique, different and the same, because God designed us this way. so, I'd like to know, is it fair for us to blame who we are on what is? or what is on who we are?
better explained as: are our lives the way they are because of who we are? or are we who we are because of our lives?
this is a perplexing question for me, and quite arguable in either sense.
maybe things are the way they are and should just be left at that.
what do you think?
xx Nicole Rose